“I love married men and cannot maintain a healthy relationship with a single male” said one girl in one of the many Whatsapp groups I’m in.
How many times have you been approached by a man with a clearly visible shiny ring and nothing in you is moved, instead you feel the urge to go for it?
Its weird that for some women married men are their drug of choice
Many women that we have come across who cannot resist married men and actually prefer that kind of relationship and you always wonder why she is comfortable sharing a men that is not even hers?
Is she not bothered by being in a relationship that almost functions like a timetable?
To answer some of these questions, provision of basic needs is one of the major reasons why women tend to prefer married men to single men.
Here are other reasons women can date, sleep with a married man and have zero guilt about it:
- Married men are more secure sources of funding for women because they can provide for their needs.
- Age, single men unwilling to settle down, the maturity of married men and experience among others are also reasons why single women prefer dating married men.
- Married men are incredibly affectionate and forthcoming about their feelings. They can adore you unreservedly, because they have no fear of commitment to get in the way.
- Simply wanting no-strings attached sex and finding someone who’s married is far less likely to want anything other than sex from you if they have someone who loves them at home.
- People are competitive and some can’t resist a challenge regardless of the destructive results. ‘I bet I could get him to leave her if he could have me instead.’
- If a man is already married, it is solid proof he isn’t afraid of commitment and can actually follow through on promises.He has proved he is stable and reliable likely to stick around when the going gets tough.These are hugely attractive qualities to women who’ve been let down by dodgy men who can’t even be relied on to turn up, let alone stand by them in a crisis.
- Taken men are also appealing because they’re not just saying those nice things to get women into bed. His compliments seem more genuine making him more likable.
While some women end up marrying single men and starting their own families, some of these women end up as “baby mamas” since the relationship does not always lead to marriage while others end up as junior wives in polygamous homes.