Buy Your Own Morning After Pill !

I know I am probably going to make lots of enemies from this post but this cat had to come out of the sack.
Its sad that a lot of women fall pregnant when they could have avoided the situation. Back in college young girls fell pregnant not because they wanted to but the boyfriend kept procrastinating buying the pill and boom she is keeping it.
I am all for the boy buying cause I mean he comes in you, in most situations, in the heat of the moment both parties agree that he will buy the pill but some men are just so inconsiderate that once he is done its back to square one and for 72 hours she has to nag him for the morning after to no avail.
When I was in my first year my roommate and I were free spirits to the point that one random girl that stayed down the corridor came to us, asked for $5 to buy the pill. It bothered me, why was she so reckless, why isn’t your boyfriend buying? All these were questions flying from my mouth.
She explained that her boyfriend was taking time to buy the pill and hence decided to take matters in her hands. Then I did not get it but now I do. Pregnancy is carried by you the woman, how I wish it would be both parties with bulging stomachs but you are called the nzenza or mvana and he is nothing but a hero.
Men can easily get away with being baby daddies but a baby momma I don’t think so.
Don’t get me wrong, I am not saying the boy should not buy the pill but in a situation where he is not budging it is entirely up to you to do something.
In addition, it should show you something about the boy in line with responsibility. Take it as a lesson, as they say fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me.
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However if you are sexually active and clearly not ready to have a baby there are various forms of contraception you can be on. You can go to the new start center where they will explain everything to you and choose what suits you for free. Other than that condoms all the way, unprotected sex does not only come with pregnancy but sexually transmitted diseases and HIV/AIDS too.
My thoughts, what do you think?
 

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8 Comments

  • ellenalexa
    November 22, 2018 11:29 am

    Girl, yes! If he won’t buy it then I’ll buy it myself. Hell, I’ll already have it before we do anything.

    • Faith Panashe Zvorufura
      November 22, 2018 11:30 am

      hahaha I like that, thank you

  • heyanci
    November 22, 2018 12:19 pm

    Totally agree , if he is slacking girl I have to look out for me and the egg that ain’t ready to be anything than the egg

    • Faith Panashe Zvorufura
      November 22, 2018 12:38 pm

      True say, its really up to us to be pregnant, lets keep our eggs, eggs till we ready

  • Ntombie
    November 22, 2018 1:35 pm

    Truth right there. Ladies it shouldn’t just be pills but condoms too. There is no point in being shy yet you are sexually active. It’s our duty to take care of ourselves.

    • Faith Panashe Zvorufura
      November 23, 2018 3:16 pm

      True that, it is our responsibilty

  • Advocate
    June 21, 2020 7:31 pm

    I liked this, or to begin with use the paper to be safe

    • faithpanashe
      June 22, 2020 1:05 pm

      Thank you…Yep people should normalize using condoms

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